Try Herbert Benson's proven five step method to turn down overwhelm.
The autonomic nervous system (ANS) regulates bodily functions such as blood pressure, heart rate, breathing and digestion. It consists of two separate systems that work in opposition to each other.
The sympathetic system mediates the fight/flight aka stress response; it revs us up to deal with challenge or threat whilst the parasympathetic system does the opposite. It slows things down.
Relaxation techniques such as breathing exercises, meditation, mindful coloring, yoga practice or picturing a peaceful place encourage the body to switch to the ANS’ rest and digest parasympathetic system.
Herbert Benson, the founder of the Harvard Mind-Body Institute, called the inbuilt physiological changes that occur when the stress response is not operating the relaxation response (Benson, Beary and Carol, 1974).
He found that the body's relaxation response could be entrained using a simple meditative approach.
How to initiate Benson's Relaxation Response
1. Get comfortable. Whether sitting, standing or lying down uncross the legs and allow the arms and hands to rest.
2. Gently close the eyes (no need to squeeze shut) or lower your gaze to the floor.
3. Check your body for any obvious areas of tension that you can relax a little more.
Tip! Many of us (including me) tense our bellies unconsciously, see if that's you and if it is let your belly relax completely.
4. Breathing only through the nose, if that works for you, find and focus your attention on the sensations of breath in the nostrils and throat.
5. Each time you exhale, silently say to yourself "one".
Tip! It's the focus on the exhale and repetition of a word so that thinking is inhibited that is important not the word you use. So, if the word "one" has negative connotations for you, feel free to pick another one.
If you are only doing this for a set amount of time, every now an again look at a clock. Best not to use an alarm, it may trigger the stress response!
Finally, don't expect to feel a change. Trust that your body is doing things internally that you can't detect.
I'm curious to know if you try out this famous technique and how you get on. You can tell me in the comments below or message me here. I always like to hear how people find these techniques.
Take care of you.